Posted by Itzel
Yo quiero expresar mis condolencias a los padres y
familiares de este niño que fallecio yo nunca lo conoci pero tengo un hijo en
esta misma escuela y de esta edad y solo el pensar como madere una perdida asi
me a desecho el corazon desde el dia que esto sucedio me he llenado de tristeza
y mis oraciones estan con ustedes pidiendole a Dios todos los dias por el
consuelo para sus corazones se que toda palabra hoy es inutil pero su hijo
vivira eternamente no solo con Dios pero en sus corazones, en su alma, en su
mente y en sus pensamientos. su recuerdo siempre estara vivo, sus memorias sus
sonrisas sus bromas, su niñez, sus besos, y abrazos viviran eternamente en
ustedes y los mantendra vivos. Dios los fortalezca, los bendiga, y les de el
consuelo que nesecitan.
Posted by Robert
Scroggs
Celebration Services for Nicholas Alexander Scroggs
(14) of Grand Prairie, TX, will be 2:00p.m. Tuesday, December 16, 2008 at the
Ruthe Jackson Center in Grand Praire. Nicholas died December 11, 2008 in Grand
Prairie. He was born to Robert and Barbara Dent Scroggs August 18, 1994 in
Denton and was attending Grand Prairie High School. Nick was taking a full
slate of Gifted & Talented classes at Grand Prairie High School where he
was also a member of the swim team and a friend to everyone. He had a passion
for reading, drawing, and playing all types of musical instruments, especially
the drums. He was always gung- ho about trying new experiences and his smile
and energy were contagious to everyone. Left behind to cherish his memory are
parents Robert Scroggs and his wife Katherine of Grand Prairie, Barbara
Brumbaugh and her husband Don of NRH, brother Houston Chapman, sister Madalyn
Brumbaugh, grandparents Jack and Charlotte Scroggs of Denton and Charles and
Lee Dent of Poncha Springs, CO, great grandmothers Genevieve Scroggs of Denton
and Ethel Dill of Fort Collins, CO, and many aunts, uncles, and cousins who
also loved him dearly. Memorial contributions are suggested to the Nicholas
Scroggs Memorial Fund. www.homesteadfuneralhomes.com
Posted by my2girls
I just happened to this site by total accident. It
just appeared on my computer but I feel so compelled to make a post. Teenagers
brains are not fully developed. The are incapable of really understanding
consequences of their behavior. It is a biological fact. Good kids make errors
in judgment. I just can not imagine the grief. You would just have to put me in
the casket too. I have a favorite poem and I want to share it with the family.
I hope it offers some kind of condolence. I understand that nothing anyone can
say right now will help. But maybe someday, this poem will. I am so very sorry.
The author is Edgar Guest. "A Child of Mine" I will lend you, for a
little time,a child of mine, He said. For you to love the while he lives, and
mourn for when he's dead.
It may be six or seven years, or twenty-two or three.
But will you, till I call him back, take care of him for Me?
He'll bring his
charm to gladden you, And should his stay be brief, You'll have his lovely
memories, As solace for your grief. I cannot promise he will stay, Since all
from earth return, But there are lessons taught down there, I want this child
to learn. I've looked the wide world over, In search of teacher true. And from
the throngs that crowd life's lanes, I have selected you.
Now will you give
him all your love, Nor think the labour vain. Nor hate me when I come To take
him home again? I fancied when I heard them say, "Lord, Thy will be
done." For all the joys Thy child shall bring, The risk of grief we'll
run.
We'll shelter him with tenderness, We'll love him while we may, And for
happiness we've known, Forever grateful stay.
But should the angels call for
him, much sooner than we"ve planned. We'll brave the bitter grief that
comes, And try to understand." May God Bless you. I am so sorry.
Posted by OldMom
As parents, we do our very best to wrap our
children in our love. We buckle them up and adjust the temperature of our water
heaters. We hold their hands, and help them learn to cross streets. We oversee
homework, pack lunches, attend school-sponsored meetings. We say, "Be
safe, be smart, be careful, I love you..." Nick's family surrounded him
with their love and attention. They were available to enjoy his effervescent
energy and sweet spirit. Whether it was chaperoning camp or taking photos at
programs and events, they were there, sharing the parenting of our kids. Even
the best of kids from the most caring of families make mistakes that make no sense.
Please, God, let this tragedy help our kids to recognize how important each of
them is!
Posted by mag500
This Is Sad To Know Another Student From GPHS Has
Died.
I Never Knew Him Personally but I Have Seen Him Before At School, He Was
Always So Happy.
RIP NICK.
Posted by RebeccaK
Robert - I can not begin to tell you how horrible I
feel for you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers and if there
is ANYTHING we can do, please let Deb know. I remember when I met you and
Nicholas and just remember how happy you both were! Your loss breaks my heart.
Love is being sent your way – Becky
Posted by badfinger
I really wish the media would research
"facts" before distributing news to the public. These kids were not
skipping school. When there is a swim meet, the swim team members get out at 2
pm. My son is on that swim team. I don't want people reading this article
thinking that the boy would be alive if he wasn't "skipping" school.
Posted by Amy from
Gp
We are going to miss you Nick!
An awesome friend,
that made everyone laugh with his funny jokes.Prayers for all his friends and
family, Through this hard moments. He is in a better place.
Love, Velazquez
Family
Posted by grandprairiemommy
Prayers for the family, friends and the driver.
This has got to be one of the most devastating things that could ever happen to
a parent. My heart hurts for everyone who knew this young man and those who
witnessed his final moments.I pray God will give them the strength and comfort
to get through this tragedy.
Posted by free_falesteen
Oh that’s right Yellowfever – at 14 years of age
you were so smart and new everything Who cares whether or not he was in a
hurry!! A child is dead!
Posted by Jason s
Dad
Is was one year nine months and three days ago, I
sat with my wife wondering why our son crossed a hwy just a short way down from
an underpass. Mr. and Mrs. Scroggs, There are no words or actions to help the
pain and disbelief that has devastated your world today. As I read the news of
your son my broken heart cracked even more. I wish there was something I could
say or do to help you with everything you are to endure. Yes your son is with
the Lord and in good hands but as a parent we want them to remain with us
because that is where they belong. We ask why and receive no reasons,
tomorrow's come and go jet with out you child it is just another day. Our
prayers are with you and your family and friends, May the Love from each other
help you in the days, weeks ,months, and years ahead. I'm here for you
972-781-8528 myspace.com/carlord16 is Jason's myspace page that we left up so
everyone that knows him can visit , there are some poems I wrote to help me
cope with the pain. God Bless
Posted by Anne 1996
I too passed right after the accident, I have had
spells all afternoon/evening/night of flashbacks to the scene. I was lucking
enough not to see him. Although the blood at the scene and his friend
collapsing not far from the body...is haunting in its own right.
Posted by Pooua
spiritualgirl, I wish I could console all of you
for your loss. I hope that someone is there for his friend, who came back for
him. It is tragic that someone so gifted has left us so soon.
Posted by spiritualgirl
Amazing how some people can act as if they don't
have a clue how devastating such a loss can be. Don't you know that Nicholas'
family will read this? His dad, his mom, his brother!!!
I knew Nicholas and
I've known his father since we were just a few years older than Nicholas is
now. I can attest to Nicholas being a BRILLIANT child, and I don't mean
"generally" - I mean measurably and provable!!
What he could have
done for the world --- we will never know. It is a loss to us ALL without a
doubt.
Check yourself. Hope this never happens to anyone you love - or to you.
Posted by Pooua
This young man's decision, unfortunately, is not
that uncommon among children. I remember a 9 year-old girl who was killed in
Albuquerque several years ago, when she and her friends tried to run across a
major freeway. They had done it several times on previous days, but that day
she changed her mind mid-way across. I understand that another young man in the
Metroplex died this same way last year. Just go to any college town and try to
drive the roads near the college when the students are going between classes;
they don't even give a thought to stepping out in front of traffic anywhere
they happen to be.
Sometimes, teenagers make bad decisions. When I was about
15 years old, I was riding a moped on the right shoulder of a 4-lane highway,
when I made a left turn, right in front of a car. Fortunately for me, the moped
seat was high enough that the car hit below me and the moped took the brunt of
the impact. I was knocked unconscious, but I understand that I landed on the
car's hood.
I've worked as a volunteer fireman along an interstate. I've seen
a lot of people die tragically.
Posted by Pooua
This young man's decision, unfortunately, is not
that uncommon among children. I remember a 9 year-old girl who was killed in
Albuquerque several years ago, when she and her friends tried to run across a
major freeway. They had done it several times on previous days, but that day
she changed her mind mid-way across. I understand that another young man in the
Metroplex died this same way last year. Just go to any college town and try to
drive the roads near the college when the students are going between classes;
they don't even give a thought to stepping out in front of traffic anywhere
they happen to be.
Sometimes, teenagers make bad decisions. When I was about
15 years old, I was riding a moped on the right shoulder of a 4-lane highway,
when I made a left turn, right in front of a car. Fortunately for me, the moped
seat was high enough that the car hit below me and the moped took the brunt of
the impact. I was knocked unconscious, but I understand that I landed on the
car's hood.
I've worked as a volunteer fireman along an interstate. I've seen
a lot of people die tragically.
Posted by YellowFever
The kid was killed. Why does DMN mention he was a
member of a swim team? What does being a member on a swim team have to dowith
this story? Is DMN trying to imply that if you are on a swim team you are
stupid, have no commen sense and that you cross busy interstates trying to get
killed?
Posted by YellowFever
Why did he leave school early? Why did he not use
the underpass like his friend? Sounds like he was in a hurry. For what?
Posted by CRC56
The disgrace continues.
La desgraciada continua.
Posted by shute81
I drove
up seconds after it happened even before the police or ambulance. There were
people huddled over him. I couldn't tell what was in the road until I got
close. Then I saw it was a kid and a man put his jacket over him. I have not
been the same since and can't get that scene out of my mind. So sad. He is in
Heaven and at peace.
Posted by Liberal
Joe
Darwin Award? Show some respect, please. Go check
your kids Chat Logs before you start disrespecting other peoples kids! (Especially
in this situation)
Posted by CRC56
To the stone cold hearts out there who decry the
mistake of a child as deserving some kind of offensive award, let me say this:
Everyone makes mistakes in life. No one is a living saint. Mother Teresa is
long gone.
You want to judge; then prepare to be judged.
It is a scientific
fact that good judgment isn't fully formed until the early 20's. A 14 yo did
something on a lark and paid with his life.
For anyone to chuckle or smirk or
crack wise about such a thing is a disgrace. But pretty common here in the
unfortunately little moderated Dallas Morning News. A website that continuously
brings out the worst in the city.
Posted by scigrl
I am devastated at the loss of Nick Scroggs. I
taught him in the 6th grade and he was an extremely bright young man. Our Lord
must have wanted Nick with him very fast. It's a shame that one moment in time
when common sense was missing, led to a tragic ending. My prayers are with
Nick's family, the family of his friend, his classmates at GP9C, his current
and former teachers and the family of the driver. Nick has now seen the face of
God and that is one face I too am looking forward to seeing. We'll all miss
you, Nick.
Posted by gpraider88
This boy wasn't your ordinary kid. He was smart,
funny, and most of all, a good friend. I had him in 2 of my classes at GPHS and
sat by him in both. He made everyone's day brighter that he came into contact
with. We will never forget him.
Posted by SM2008
Hopefully others will learn not to do this. Don't
let this death be for naught.
Posted by speakinwhatifeel
We have all done stupid stuff and I am sure most
question "how in the world did I survive what I just did"...I wish
for peace and comfort for the family...realizing that this sounds incredibly
generic but I cannot even imagine what they are going through
Posted by Pooua
I arrived
at the accident scene moments after it happened. I did not witness the
accident, but I was only a few seconds behind those who did. I am so sorry this
happened. I wish we could have done something for him. May the families
involved be comforted. Thanks to the newspaper for carrying the story. I've
been looking for it.
Posted by freebyrd
you know
this is sad because a person died but not unusual given the circumstances of a
freeway crossing. the kid probably wasn't aware of just how many people die
under similar circumstances.
14-year-old boy fatally struck by SUV while trying to cross
Interstate 30 in Grand Prairie
06:42 PM CST on Thursday, December 11, 2008
By
DAN X. McGRAW / The Dallas Morning News
A
14-year-old boy was struck and killed while trying to cross Interstate 30 in
Grand Prairie this afternoon, authorities said.
Nicholas
Scroggs of Grand Prairie had left school early with a classmate at the Grand
Prairie High School Ninth Grade Center when Nicholas decided to take a shortcut
across the freeway about 2:30 p.m., said Sgt. Eric Hansen, a Grand Prairie
police spokesman. A Chevy Suburban struck him near the Belt Line Road exit.
His
friend, who was not identified, crossed at an underpass and was not injured,
Sgt. Hansen said. Both teens were members of the Grand Prairie High swim team.
The SUV
driver said he did not see the boy in time to stop, Sgt. Hansen said. He was
not issued a citation.
Eastbound
lanes of I-30 were shut down for two hours as police investigated the crash.
http://www.quickdfw.com/sharedcontent/dws/news/localnews/stories/121208dnmetgphit.532d0f8e.html#
Thursday 11-11-2008 The Day Your Life Change For
Ever Nicholas a Young Man That Live a Young Life will allways will be in are
hearts
for his family & freinds now he can be with his family in heaven
looking down and keeping his mom & dad & family safe my God Bless.
this is so sad to hear, but what is it about people
that can't take the extra time to walk to an intersection where there is a
better and somewhat safer place to cross. saw a man this morning trying to do
the same thing and the intersection was only a few feet down.
I can't imagine what the minister's family is going
through. How many times have we heard of grown people crossing the highway and
getting killed? We should have more commercials about crossing highways.....put
it on all times of day...like the ones they used to have about littering and
crossing railroads wit the lights on...I knew it was stupid to cross the
highway, but I had no idea it was against the law. Somewhere we are not getting
the message. As for the schoolmates, you guys will never forget this lil guy,
just as I have never forgotten the classmate I lost to her drunken driving
boyfriend on prom night over 22 years ago.....Blessings on the families.....
Words cant express how sad this is. Sorry for your
loss Mr Scruggs and may God bless you and your family.
Mr. Scruggs, I am so very sorry for your loss. We work
with the teens at our church and camps and love them all dearly. I pray that
God will wrap His loving arms around you all.
IN LOVIN MEMORY OF NICHOLAS SCROGGS THIS IS FROM
THE STUDENTS AT GPHS 9TH GRADE CENTER WERE GOING TO MISS HIM SO MUCH!!
NICHOLAS
SCROGGS--GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN ='(
--GPHS 9TH GRADE CENTER
Mr Scroggs, please know how terribly sorry I
am for
your loss, I can only imagine the pain
you are feeling. As I said, teens have
that
zeal for life and don't always think, so your
son was no different - he
didn't do anything
wrong as a crime, he was the result of an
unintentional
accident. We feel your pain with
you and thank you for sharing his story with
us.
He looks like he really loves life and I
am sure brought lots of happiness to
those
around him often. Cherish his memories always
and know that he did bring
joy and his other
gifts to everyone he came into contact with.
God bless you
and your family - may He grant
you comfort and strength. You never know who
you
may have touched by sharing his story and
how it may comfort others along the
way. God
has Nicholas now - and rest assured he is safe
and he is happy !
I
pray too, for the one who hit Nicholas. He
will have this to haunt him the rest
of his
life.
A very horrible tragedy.
I'm so sorry for the loss. May God keep him safe
and my prayers are with his family and friends as well as the driver of the vehicle.
Very
tragic and you also have to feel for the person that hit him.
My prayers for his family and friends!!
Mr. Scroggs,
My prayers are with you and your
family for this tragic loss. May God give you peace and strength.
So sad, hope others realize how unsafe it is to
cross highways...just don't do it. God bless his family and the minister and
his family too.
Poor baby. Sounds like he was just being a kid and
trying something that seemed exciting without realizing the serious consequences
possible. May God comfort his grieving family and the poor minister who hit
him. I can't imagine having to be either side.
Nicholas was my son. He has led a charmed life. No
broken bones or other injuries. He was a daredevil and a risk taker. He was
smart, and full of life. He never met a person that he did not wish to
befriend. He brought joy and happiness to everyone's life. Crossing the highway
isn't even a short-cut. My guess is that he just thought it would be exciting.
One terrible decision has cost him his life. Nicholas has always been the world
to me. I love him, and I miss him.
Hey, it's fine with me - I knew you didn't
mean it
like that. But, I was just giving
you a "red flag" in case. Yep, I
just imagine
most all of our teen yrs we were perfect lil'
angels, but
thankfully, some of my mischief
kept me alive as well as you. Too bad for
this
kid. Hey, sorry about your day. I
know too well about those kinds. Let that
whiskey
put you sound asleep tonight. And
maybe tomorrow will look brighter !
marla, it really is they whiskey talkin, ive had a
rough day, im sorry. may his family get the love and help they need. this is
sad. i eas a teen once and luckily i didnt make a accidental eternal mistake
DILLIGAFF: Are you sure you mean this? It
does not
sound like you at all. Maybe you
mean it shouldn't have happened, but just
as I
said, kids this age are very daring
and naive. I don't wish them to die b/c
of
that. That's a bit harsh there ! What
if the family is reading? How hurtful
your
remark would be !
its the whiskey talking , but im the kid tried to
save a few minutes, but it ended up taking an eternity to do it.
Oh my
god! I know him. Its gonna be a sad day at school tomorrow.
My god bless
Nick's family!
Oh gosh,
this is TOO sad ! I pray God be
with his family and friends, especially the
one
who was with him.
Unfortunately, teens this age don't always
think of
potential consequences to their
actions - they are so naive.
I am so sorry
for the whole family !
Boy fatally struck while crossing I-30 in Grand Prairie
08:36 AM CST on Friday, December 12, 2008
By
WFAA-TV and The Dallas Morning News Reports
Steve Stoler reports
GRAND
PRAIRIE - A 14-year-old boy was struck and killed Thursday afternoon while
trying to cross Interstate 30 in Grand Prairie, authorities said.
Nicholas
Scroggs had left school early with a classmate at the Grand Prairie High School
Ninth Grade Center when he decided to cut across the freeway at about 2:30
p.m., said Sgt. Eric Hansen, a Grand Prairie police spokesman.
A
Chevy Suburban, driven by a Farmersville minister who was with his wife and two
young children, struck him near the Belt Line Road exit. The driver said he did
not see the boy in time to stop, Sgt. Hansen said. He was not issued a
citation.
"His
friend went the way this student should have gone, and that was to take the 7th
Street underpass to get to his house," said Sgt. Eric Hansen, Grand
Prairie Department. "So, it makes no sense really for him to have crossed
over the freeway. It's not even a shortcut, really, in my opinion. So, it
remains a mystery right now as to why he would even attempt to do such a thing."
Nicholas
Scroggs' father, Robert, wrote a statement about the fatal incident.
"Those
cars are just moving so much faster than they look," he wrote. "One
spur of the moment choice led to the death of a very happy, friendly and
wonderful young man."
His
14-year-old friend, who was not identified, crossed at an underpass and was not
injured, Sgt. Hansen said. Both teens were members of the Grand Prairie High
swim team.
Sgt.
Hansen said it's unlawful for pedestrians to be on the highway.
"They
should never be up there," he said. "They should never try [to cross]
under any circumstances."
Scroggs
was a freshman at the Grand Prairie high school and was enrolled in gifted and
talent classes.
WFAA-TV's
Steve Stoler and The
Dallas Morning News' Dan X. McGraw contributed to this report
http://www.wfaa.com/sharedcontent/dws/wfaa/latestnews/stories/wfaa081211_mo_boykilled.53d53553.html
| Boy Hit and Killed on I-30 | |
| Last Edited: Thursday, 11 Dec 2008, 9:25 PM CST | |
| Created: Thursday, 11 Dec 2008, 4:14 PM CST | |
A Grand Prairie boy was hit and killed by a vehicle on Interstate 30 on Thursday afternoon. Nicholas Scroggs, 14, was struck by an SUV in the the far left eastbound lane near Beltline Road as he was trying to cross the freeway, police said. The GPHS Ninth Grade Center student was walking home with a friend who refused to cross I-30. The other student decided to use the underpass at nearby 7th Street instead. The driver of the Chevy Suburban, 39-year-old Christopher Barber of Farmersville, was not hurt, nor were his wife and two young children who were in the vehicle with him. No charges will be filed against Barber. Scroggs was on the swim team and left school early to be at a swim meet Thursday evening. | |
Dec 11, 2008 10:11 pm US/Central
High School Freshman Killed
Running Across I-30
GRAND
PRAIRIE (CBS 11 News) ―
KTVT
/ KTXA
A 14-year-old boy
was killed as he tried to run across Interstate 30 in Grand Prairie.
The Dallas County
Medical Examiner's office has identified the boy as Nicholas Scroggs of Grand
Prairie.
Sgt. Eric Hansen of
the Grand Prairie Police Department tells CBS 11 News the boy was a freshman at
Grand Prairie High School. Sam Buchmeyer, a spokesman for the Grand Prairie
ISD, says he was a member of the school's swim team.
The Grand Prairie
School Board took time out to remember Nicholas Thursday night. "He was a
good student. Good athlete. Well liked on campus," said Buchmeyer.
Investigators say
Nicholas left school early Thursday afternoon to get ready for a swim meet
later that day. Hansen says he was trying to take a shortcut home. Hanson says
Nicholas' house is about one mile from the school. I-30 is halfway in between,
Hanson said.
"In my
opinion, he wasn't saving himself any time because he didn't live directly
north of the freeway," said Hansen. "He still had to cross the same
street that goes underneath the freeway that would have been the safe route
home."
The boy was with
a friend from the swim team when he ran onto I-30 near Northwest Seventh
Street, according to Hansen.
"He made it
across two of the three lanes and then got struck by a Chevrolet
Suburban," said Hansen.
The other
teenager, who chose not to run onto the highway, saw the Suburban strike
Nicholas. He then watched in horror as the driver of the Suburban and several
other witnesses tried to help Nicholas.
But there wasn't
much they could do. He didn't make it.
Nicholas' parents
did not want to go on camera, but they say their son was a good kid. He was an
honor student who loved swimming and art. They say he wanted to go to college
to possibly study architecture.
Robert Scroggs
says he hopes the accident serves as a warning to other kids. "Don't cross
the freeway," he said. "Cars move faster than you."
Nicholas'
teammates did not take part in their scheduled swim meet at Duncanville High
School.
The driver who
hit Nicholas will not be charged with any crime.
Counselors will
be available Friday to help students and staff members deal with the tragedy.
(© MMVIII, CBS Broadcasting Inc. All Rights Reserved.)
http://cbs11tv.com/local/teen.killed.i.2.885441.html
These are
the comments posted online in response to the NBC news story.
PLH
Robert
•
Angel - Thursday, Dec 18 at 9:02
AM
My heart goes out to his family and the family that was in the car. What a
terrible tragedy. No one should ever have to bury their child.
•
megg - Tuesday, Dec 16 at 4:04 PM
poor nickolos i loved u and u never got to see it i miss u big hunk now i lay
down thinking i shouldve went up to u and ask u out now i cant do that i lov u
rip
•
Elizabeth K - Monday, Dec 15 at
10:25 PM
You were a great edition to the tnt team! We will miss you so much! xoxo
Elizabeth
•
orlandos baby - Monday, Dec 15 at
12:51 PM
rest in peace nicholas scroggs
•
orlandos baby - Monday, Dec 15 at
12:50 PM
rest in peace nick scroggs
•
jana - Monday, Dec 15 at 12:49 PM
poor kid and if you have somethin to say thats negative just dont say at all.
rest in peace
•
Sharon - Monday, Dec 15 at 11:37
AM
Anonymous - if you don't have something supportive and compassionate to say,
please keep your comments to yourself. This family is suffering and making
comments like that are totally unnecessary and extremely hurtful.
•
Tim Gorski - Monday, Dec 15 at
10:02 AM
Despite his tragic end, may Nicholas' life be an enduring source of blessings
to all who knew him, now and in the future.
•
Rebecca Lozano - Monday, Dec 15 at
9:27 AM
Although I only met Nick once, I knew him to be a very cool kid. I remember
thinking that Katherine and Robert were so lucky to have 2 great kiddos.
Katherine always kept me informed of how well her boys were doing on our lunch
getaways. I am so sorry that you guys are going thru this and will keep you all
in my thoughts and prayers! Rest in Peace, Nick.
•
Mark and Zeena Hooper - Monday,
Dec 15 at 7:51 AM
Our heart-felt condolences go out to Robert, Catherine and family in this
most-difficult of times. We wish you peace and a hope that you find joy in
remembering all the gifts that Nicolas left while he was with us.
•
MC - Saturday, Dec 13 at 10:12 PM
I was Nick's PreAP
Geography teacher...I am so sorry that Nick's family has to go through this. My
heart goes out to them - especially Nick's brother, who is also one of my
students. Yesterday was a really hard day, but it was touching to see just how
many people had been affected by Nick's presence in their lives. He was his own
person - true to his heart. Adventurous and impish, playful and sweet. We'll
miss him terribly. We've saved your place at lunch, Nick. Forever and always.
•
Robert Scroggs - Saturday, Dec 13
at 9:43 PM
Celebration Services for
Nicholas Alexander Scroggs (14) of Grand Prairie, TX, will be 2:00p.m. Tuesday,
December 16, 2008 at the Ruthe Jackson Center in Grand Praire. Nicholas died
December 11, 2008 in Grand Prairie. He was born to Robert and Barbara Dent
Scroggs August 18, 1994 in Denton and was attending Grand Prairie High School.
Nick was taking a full slate of Gifted & Talented classes at Grand Prairie
High School where he was also a member of the swim team and a friend to
everyone. He had a passion for reading, drawing, and playing all types of musical
instruments, especially the drums. He was always gung- ho about trying new
experiences and his smile and energy were contagious to everyone. Left behind
to cherish his memory are parents Robert Scroggs and his wife Katherine of
Grand Prairie, Barbara Brumbaugh and her husband Don of NRH, brother Houston
Chapman, sister Madalyn Brumbaugh, grandparents Jack and Charlotte Scroggs of
Denton and Charles and Lee Dent of Poncha Springs, CO, great grandmothers
Genevieve Scroggs of Denton and Ethel Dill of Fort Collins, CO, and many aunts,
uncles, and cousins who also loved him dearly. Memorial contributions are
suggested to the Nicholas Scroggs Memorial Fund. www.homesteadfuneralhomes.com
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mark - Saturday, Dec 13 at 8:54 PM
I had him for 2 periods and he was a great guy to talk to and get along with
will miss you dearly rest in peace.
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davericka - Saturday, Dec 13 at
6:34 PM
i dont know nick my condolinces goes to the scroggs family.because loosing
somebody could seriously hurt.
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Shelley Smith - Saturday, Dec 13
at 4:54 PM
I was one of Nick's friends as well, and I can say honestly that school on
Friday without Nick was terrible. Every single person who knew Nick, whether
they were one of his best friends, friends, classmates, or minor acquaintances,
were crying. The staff was crying. You never really know how much you care
about someone until they're gone. We all miss Nick terribly, and we all wish we
could see his wonderful smile just one more time. He always smiled, and
it's heartbreaking to think that we'll never see him again because of this spur
of the moment decision... Nick was a wonderful person, and it's so so so sad
that he's not with us anymore. Eisenhower kids miss him. Adams kids miss him.
GP kids miss him. I can barely imagine the pain that Houston and Mr. and Mrs.
Scroggs are going through... best wishes to you all, stay strong. Nick's
passing has been a horrible tragedy, and we'll all miss him at school very
much.
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Kinney - Saturday, Dec 13 at 11:02
AM
Our hearts go out to you and your family for the loss of your son. Our thougts
and prayers go out to your family. God bless you.
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Trellis - Saturday, Dec 13 at
10:34 AM
Our thought and prays are with you and yours. He was such a great child and his
love and devotion to his adorable sister and family will always be remembered.
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J.B. - Saturday, Dec 13 at 1:32 AM
As a mother, I can only imagine your sorrow and my heart aches for you. My
thoughts and deepest condolences are with everyone touched by this tragedy.
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a friend - Saturday, Dec 13 at
12:06 AM
i was one of Nicks friends and i still cant belive that happiend and that he
was a really good friend and everyone at gp9th will miss u and that u wont be
4gotten.
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only the good die young - Friday,
Dec 12 at 11:58 PM
To Mr. Robert Scroggs. I
pray for the heartless people. Who made comments posted on this website.
Obviously the people posting these comments didn't know Nicholas and have never
experienced a loss like this. I don't understand how some people can be so
righteous to judge a young life being lost. And I sorry that there a lot of
people out there that are uncompassionate to other. Those people also made
heartless comment s on the young man that was also kill 2 week ago Cameron Paul
Jeansonne. Cameron like your son made a poor decision that ends his life too.
Therefore, the heartless people don’t care if the parents of the child that
they just lost read the negative comments. To say the least Cameron father
feels the same way as you Mr. Scroggs. Because he also sees the negative and
the hated comment made about his son too. They do not care about anyone else
but themselves. For those who know and loved them both will miss them the most.
My thoughts and prayers are with both the family.
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chelsey - Friday, Dec 12 at 11:57
PM
yep, that smile. i cried all day, but now i realize that it's better to mimic
your smile than to just remember it. you are soo missed!
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Anonymous - Friday, Dec 12 at 9:08
PM
Rick, may God be of comfort to you, your wife, and your family. Nick sounds
like my own teenage Son and my heart breaks for your family. May this loss not
be remembered as a tragedy, but a continued celebration of Nick's life. God
bless you all!
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Nikki White - Friday, Dec 12 at
7:10 PM
I was Nick's Big Sister fr the swim team, and his death has hit me hard. It's
feels like I've lost a family member, and it has been hard to cope with his
death. The one thing I will always remember about Nick washis smile. Everytime
I saw it, it brought so much joy to my life. I send my deepest regaurds to
Nick's family. This was a Terrible loss for them, and as well for his friend
Nathan. It was a sad day indeed.... I also feel for the family in the car that
hit him. Nikki White
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Shannon Meister - Friday, Dec 12
at 5:32 PM
I was Nick's Band Director in Middle School and he was definitely one of the
"good kids." He gave me a hug every day before leaving school to go
home. I will always remember all of the books he loved to read (especially
during class
) and how hard of a worker in band he was. Scroggs family - I
loved your son very much and my deepest prayers are with you now. It is hard to
understand God's path sometimes, but I rejoice in His ways. Thank you for
allowing me to be a part of Nick's life - because, by knowing him, I am forever
a better person.
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Bryan Brooks - Friday, Dec 12 at
5:29 PM
Sad day this is his friend that was his band mate and i hope you rest in peace
and houston (nicks brother) Mark is trying to contact us. look up my name on
myspace and we can hook up. Rest in peace nick
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unknow - Friday, Dec 12 at 5:15 PM
nick ... i will always remember you. you were a great friend and i miss you
dearly always remember i love you! may you rest in peace.
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Anonymous - Friday, Dec 12 at 2:19
PM
my thoughts and prayers go out to this young mans family and also to the family
of the person who hit him, im sure they just feel more horrible than anyone can
ever imagine. its so horrible when tragedy strikes like this, especially around
the holidays.
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happy medium - Friday, Dec 12 at
2:13 PM
Oh no that's so sad. I heard this on traffic reports about a pedestrian struck
on I30 and remember thinking 'pedestrian on I30? Why would someone walk across
a busy interstate? Now I know who they were talking about, so sad. Poor kiddo.
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T - Friday, Dec 12 at 1:46 PM
This is so tragic. I can't even imagine what you must be going throgh. My
thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
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Linda - Friday, Dec 12 at 1:19 PM
My prayers are with all these families that have been affected by this tragedy.
Maybe the city of Grand Prairie should consider building a crossbridge.
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Gloria Gamez - Friday, Dec 12 at
1:19 PM
As a grieving aunt who lost her nephew to a tragic accident also back in 2006,
I can feel your pain and will pray that God helps you get over your terrible
loss. Nick seemed to be a super kid, God must have needed him more....May God
Bless you.
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ANGIE LEAL - Friday, Dec 12 at
12:32 PM
AS A PARENT I COULD NOT IMAGINE WHAT YOU ARE GOING THRU, BUT I AM DEEPLY SORRY
FOR YOUR LOSS.I WILL PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. MAY GOD BLESS YOU.
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Linda - Friday, Dec 12 at 12:14 PM
I am praying for Nicholas' family and also the family that was in the suburban.
He was a preacher they said and I'm sure he is devastated as well. He also had
his children in the van with him and I'm sure they are all in shock as is the
Scrogg's family. I'm so very sorry for your loss. May God Bless
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SanAntonio - Friday, Dec 12 at
12:09 PM
As a father, i cannot imagine the hurt and pain you are feeling Mr. Scroggs. I
am praying for you and your family. Lesson or not- your son is a special part
of you and his mom. I just moved to here to Dallas and I left my son with his
mom in SA. I worry, but pray, for his safety. He too is a daredevil. I just
wish there was a way to bring your son back. Again, I'm for your loss. May the
Lord keep you and hold you closely.
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Patty - Friday, Dec 12 at 10:25 AM
We have prayer group @ our place of employment every morning & this morning
I prayed for each and everyone ivolved in this tragic accident!! I am so sorry
to each of you this effected!!!
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Sandra - Friday, Dec 12 at 10:23
AM
I am sorry for your lose after losing my brothers, sister and dad all in one
year, I know the feeling my mom said that losing a child is worse of all. My
prayers are with you.
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e gallegos - Friday, Dec 12 at
9:43 AM
im sorry for what happened to nick im also a freshmen at gphs an i nkew him
since 7th grade becasu we whent to adams togheder
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May - Friday, Dec 12 at 9:21 AM
Please do not acknowlege the comments of the sick individual causing more grief
in this terrible situation. That is what he is after and he is not worth it.
Every time he gets a return comment he gets a sick thrill. please ignore him.
To Nick's family, my prayers and heart are with you at this time. For those of
us who had the priviledge to have seen Nick's smile here in the halls of our
school, we are grieving with you.
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f williams - Friday, Dec 12 at
9:15 AM
My son is on the swim team at another high school, and it breaks my heart to
even think of losing him or any of the other boys on the team. I can only
imagine what Nicholas' family must be going through right now. My thoughts and
prayers are with this family.
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Elizabeth - Friday, Dec 12 at 8:48
AM
May God be with you and your family in this truly difficult time.
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Sara G. - Friday, Dec 12 at 8:43
AM
Our Prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this time. You're
family is such a jewel, and it was a true pleasure to get to know you. I know
how much those boys mean to you,and I can recall all of the wonderful stories
you shared with us. From ventures to make money, to taking them to concerts,
hearing you talk about your son always brought a smile to my face. I'm truly so
sorry for your loss.
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JJ - Friday, Dec 12 at 8:34 AM
Wild Bill, you are nothing but trash, anytime you want to learn a real life
lesson why don't you let me teach it to you, believe me you'll never forget it.
Mr. Scroggs, I'm deeply saddened by your loss. I didn't know your son, but know
what it is to have to deal with loss. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with
you and your family and all the lives that this young man touched.
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Laura - Friday, Dec 12 at 8:16 AM
My heart goes out to you, Mr. Scroggs, and to your family. This has got to be a
very, very tough time for you. My heart also goes out to the family in the
Suburban. I would hate to be in their shoes. That scene will probably play out
in their memories for a long time. I have not read what "wild bill"
wrote, nor do I care to do so. It is really sad that you came here and read
words from a bitter person during your time of great sorrow and loss. Your
words, Mr. Scroggs, seem to be that of a strong man. Make sure you allow
yourself to grieve fully.
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K. Mullikin - Friday, Dec 12 at
8:14 AM
My Heart goes out to the Scroggs family. My daughter Hailey has gone to school
with Nick since Elementary and that tight knit group of kids from Eisenhower
are all taking this very hard. They loved Nick, as he was a great kid. It is a
very sad day at Grand Prairie High today. Anyone who is there today will see
many kids Honoring Nick by wearing black today. He will be greatly missed by
his friends, fellow classmates and any that knew him. As for those who are
insensative like (Wild BIll) all I can say is that maybe you should take a long
look in the mirror as you appear to be the one who needs to do some self
reflecting. It is sad to see there are people like you in the world. How dare
you make such a comment, however what goes around comes around. For those who
are missing and morning Nick GOD BLESS you all and Please keep Nicks family and
friends in your prayers.
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Ivy - Friday, Dec 12 at 8:13 AM
I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful son. Such a young like cut short.
He made a very tragic mistake that cost him his life. I'm sure others will
learn from this terrible mistake & hopefully not do it. My prayers with you
Mr. Scroggs & your entire family. Nicholas is up in heaven smiling down on
all of us.
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Amy - Friday, Dec 12 at 8:11 AM
Mr. Scroggs, I'm terribly sorry for you loss. My son was Nick's friend & he
has been traumitized by this. I hope that my son can learn from this & try
to not be such a daredevil himself. Life is fragile. I'm sorry that Nick's
ended so suddenly. I will keep your family and the family in the vehicle in my
prayers.
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Peggy - Friday, Dec 12 at 8:08 AM
We are all so sorry to hear of this tragic mistake. We will forever remember
this sweet sweet boy and his devotion to his adorable sister and family.
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Robert Scroggs - Friday, Dec 12 at
7:43 AM
Nicholas was my son. He was a smart kid, but he was a daredevil. There was no
reason for him to be on the highway yesterday afternoon. He made a very poor
decision, and it proved to be catastrophic. Anyone who can criticize him
obviously did not know him, and obviously never did anything stupid at the
risk-taking age of 14. I'm sorry that "Wild Bill" finds joy in the
suffering of others. I hope he can grow past this phase of his life.
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Brian Burns - Friday, Dec 12 at
1:37 AM
My thoughts and prayers go out to Jay's family and to all his friends at GPHS.
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William Willie - Thursday, Dec 11 at 11:01 PM
I was one of Nick's friends and as Giovanni "Jay" said, he really was
a good kid, a good friend, was always smiling, and was a smart kid and i don't
know why he would try to do something like that. He was a really good friend
and a lot of his friends at GP will miss him.
