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Posted by Itzel

 

Yo quiero expresar mis condolencias a los padres y familiares de este niño que fallecio yo nunca lo conoci pero tengo un hijo en esta misma escuela y de esta edad y solo el pensar como madere una perdida asi me a desecho el corazon desde el dia que esto sucedio me he llenado de tristeza y mis oraciones estan con ustedes pidiendole a Dios todos los dias por el consuelo para sus corazones se que toda palabra hoy es inutil pero su hijo vivira eternamente no solo con Dios pero en sus corazones, en su alma, en su mente y en sus pensamientos. su recuerdo siempre estara vivo, sus memorias sus sonrisas sus bromas, su niñez, sus besos, y abrazos viviran eternamente en ustedes y los mantendra vivos. Dios los fortalezca, los bendiga, y les de el consuelo que nesecitan.

 

Posted by Robert Scroggs

 

Celebration Services for Nicholas Alexander Scroggs (14) of Grand Prairie, TX, will be 2:00p.m. Tuesday, December 16, 2008 at the Ruthe Jackson Center in Grand Praire. Nicholas died December 11, 2008 in Grand Prairie. He was born to Robert and Barbara Dent Scroggs August 18, 1994 in Denton and was attending Grand Prairie High School. Nick was taking a full slate of Gifted & Talented classes at Grand Prairie High School where he was also a member of the swim team and a friend to everyone. He had a passion for reading, drawing, and playing all types of musical instruments, especially the drums. He was always gung- ho about trying new experiences and his smile and energy were contagious to everyone. Left behind to cherish his memory are parents Robert Scroggs and his wife Katherine of Grand Prairie, Barbara Brumbaugh and her husband Don of NRH, brother Houston Chapman, sister Madalyn Brumbaugh, grandparents Jack and Charlotte Scroggs of Denton and Charles and Lee Dent of Poncha Springs, CO, great grandmothers Genevieve Scroggs of Denton and Ethel Dill of Fort Collins, CO, and many aunts, uncles, and cousins who also loved him dearly. Memorial contributions are suggested to the Nicholas Scroggs Memorial Fund. www.homesteadfuneralhomes.com

 

Posted by my2girls

 

I just happened to this site by total accident. It just appeared on my computer but I feel so compelled to make a post. Teenagers brains are not fully developed. The are incapable of really understanding consequences of their behavior. It is a biological fact. Good kids make errors in judgment. I just can not imagine the grief. You would just have to put me in the casket too. I have a favorite poem and I want to share it with the family. I hope it offers some kind of condolence. I understand that nothing anyone can say right now will help. But maybe someday, this poem will. I am so very sorry. The author is Edgar Guest. "A Child of Mine" I will lend you, for a little time,a child of mine, He said. For you to love the while he lives, and mourn for when he's dead.
It may be six or seven years, or twenty-two or three. But will you, till I call him back, take care of him for Me?
He'll bring his charm to gladden you, And should his stay be brief, You'll have his lovely memories, As solace for your grief. I cannot promise he will stay, Since all from earth return, But there are lessons taught down there, I want this child to learn. I've looked the wide world over, In search of teacher true. And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes, I have selected you. 
Now will you give him all your love, Nor think the labour vain. Nor hate me when I come To take him home again? I fancied when I heard them say, "Lord, Thy will be done." For all the joys Thy child shall bring, The risk of grief we'll run.
We'll shelter him with tenderness, We'll love him while we may, And for happiness we've known, Forever grateful stay.
But should the angels call for him, much sooner than we"ve planned. We'll brave the bitter grief that comes, And try to understand." May God Bless you. I am so sorry.

 

Posted by OldMom

 

As parents, we do our very best to wrap our children in our love. We buckle them up and adjust the temperature of our water heaters. We hold their hands, and help them learn to cross streets. We oversee homework, pack lunches, attend school-sponsored meetings. We say, "Be safe, be smart, be careful, I love you..." Nick's family surrounded him with their love and attention. They were available to enjoy his effervescent energy and sweet spirit. Whether it was chaperoning camp or taking photos at programs and events, they were there, sharing the parenting of our kids. Even the best of kids from the most caring of families make mistakes that make no sense. Please, God, let this tragedy help our kids to recognize how important each of them is!

 

Posted by mag500

 

This Is Sad To Know Another Student From GPHS Has Died.
I Never Knew Him Personally but I Have Seen Him Before At School, He Was Always So Happy.



RIP NICK.

 

Posted by RebeccaK

 

Robert - I can not begin to tell you how horrible I feel for you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers and if there is ANYTHING we can do, please let Deb know. I remember when I met you and Nicholas and just remember how happy you both were! Your loss breaks my heart. Love is being sent your way – Becky

 

Posted by badfinger

 

I really wish the media would research "facts" before distributing news to the public. These kids were not skipping school. When there is a swim meet, the swim team members get out at 2 pm. My son is on that swim team. I don't want people reading this article thinking that the boy would be alive if he wasn't "skipping" school.

 

Posted by Amy from Gp

 

We are going to miss you Nick!

An awesome friend, that made everyone laugh with his funny jokes.Prayers for all his friends and family, Through this hard moments. He is in a better place. 

Love, Velazquez Family

 

Posted by grandprairiemommy

 

Prayers for the family, friends and the driver. This has got to be one of the most devastating things that could ever happen to a parent. My heart hurts for everyone who knew this young man and those who witnessed his final moments.I pray God will give them the strength and comfort to get through this tragedy.

 

Posted by free_falesteen

 

Oh that’s right Yellowfever – at 14 years of age you were so smart and new everything Who cares whether or not he was in a hurry!! A child is dead!

 

Posted by Jason s Dad

 

Is was one year nine months and three days ago, I sat with my wife wondering why our son crossed a hwy just a short way down from an underpass. Mr. and Mrs. Scroggs, There are no words or actions to help the pain and disbelief that has devastated your world today. As I read the news of your son my broken heart cracked even more. I wish there was something I could say or do to help you with everything you are to endure. Yes your son is with the Lord and in good hands but as a parent we want them to remain with us because that is where they belong. We ask why and receive no reasons, tomorrow's come and go jet with out you child it is just another day. Our prayers are with you and your family and friends, May the Love from each other help you in the days, weeks ,months, and years ahead. I'm here for you 972-781-8528 myspace.com/carlord16 is Jason's myspace page that we left up so everyone that knows him can visit , there are some poems I wrote to help me cope with the pain. God Bless

 

Posted by Anne 1996

 

I too passed right after the accident, I have had spells all afternoon/evening/night of flashbacks to the scene. I was lucking enough not to see him. Although the blood at the scene and his friend collapsing not far from the body...is haunting in its own right.

 

Posted by Pooua

 

spiritualgirl, I wish I could console all of you for your loss. I hope that someone is there for his friend, who came back for him. It is tragic that someone so gifted has left us so soon.

 

Posted by spiritualgirl

 

Amazing how some people can act as if they don't have a clue how devastating such a loss can be. Don't you know that Nicholas' family will read this? His dad, his mom, his brother!!!

I knew Nicholas and I've known his father since we were just a few years older than Nicholas is now. I can attest to Nicholas being a BRILLIANT child, and I don't mean "generally" - I mean measurably and provable!!

What he could have done for the world --- we will never know. It is a loss to us ALL without a doubt.

Check yourself. Hope this never happens to anyone you love - or to you.

 

Posted by Pooua

 

This young man's decision, unfortunately, is not that uncommon among children. I remember a 9 year-old girl who was killed in Albuquerque several years ago, when she and her friends tried to run across a major freeway. They had done it several times on previous days, but that day she changed her mind mid-way across. I understand that another young man in the Metroplex died this same way last year. Just go to any college town and try to drive the roads near the college when the students are going between classes; they don't even give a thought to stepping out in front of traffic anywhere they happen to be. 

Sometimes, teenagers make bad decisions. When I was about 15 years old, I was riding a moped on the right shoulder of a 4-lane highway, when I made a left turn, right in front of a car. Fortunately for me, the moped seat was high enough that the car hit below me and the moped took the brunt of the impact. I was knocked unconscious, but I understand that I landed on the car's hood. 

I've worked as a volunteer fireman along an interstate. I've seen a lot of people die tragically.

 

Posted by Pooua

 

This young man's decision, unfortunately, is not that uncommon among children. I remember a 9 year-old girl who was killed in Albuquerque several years ago, when she and her friends tried to run across a major freeway. They had done it several times on previous days, but that day she changed her mind mid-way across. I understand that another young man in the Metroplex died this same way last year. Just go to any college town and try to drive the roads near the college when the students are going between classes; they don't even give a thought to stepping out in front of traffic anywhere they happen to be. 

Sometimes, teenagers make bad decisions. When I was about 15 years old, I was riding a moped on the right shoulder of a 4-lane highway, when I made a left turn, right in front of a car. Fortunately for me, the moped seat was high enough that the car hit below me and the moped took the brunt of the impact. I was knocked unconscious, but I understand that I landed on the car's hood. 

I've worked as a volunteer fireman along an interstate. I've seen a lot of people die tragically.

 

Posted by YellowFever

 

The kid was killed. Why does DMN mention he was a member of a swim team? What does being a member on a swim team have to dowith this story? Is DMN trying to imply that if you are on a swim team you are stupid, have no commen sense and that you cross busy interstates trying to get killed?

 

Posted by YellowFever

 

Why did he leave school early? Why did he not use the underpass like his friend? Sounds like he was in a hurry. For what?

 

Posted by CRC56

 

The disgrace continues. 
La desgraciada continua.

 

Posted by shute81

 

I drove up seconds after it happened even before the police or ambulance. There were people huddled over him. I couldn't tell what was in the road until I got close. Then I saw it was a kid and a man put his jacket over him. I have not been the same since and can't get that scene out of my mind. So sad. He is in Heaven and at peace.

 

Posted by Liberal Joe

 

Darwin Award? Show some respect, please. Go check your kids Chat Logs before you start disrespecting other peoples kids! (Especially in this situation)

 

Posted by CRC56

 

To the stone cold hearts out there who decry the mistake of a child as deserving some kind of offensive award, let me say this: Everyone makes mistakes in life. No one is a living saint. Mother Teresa is long gone. 

You want to judge; then prepare to be judged. 

It is a scientific fact that good judgment isn't fully formed until the early 20's. A 14 yo did something on a lark and paid with his life. 

For anyone to chuckle or smirk or crack wise about such a thing is a disgrace. But pretty common here in the unfortunately little moderated Dallas Morning News. A website that continuously brings out the worst in the city.

 

Posted by scigrl

 

I am devastated at the loss of Nick Scroggs. I taught him in the 6th grade and he was an extremely bright young man. Our Lord must have wanted Nick with him very fast. It's a shame that one moment in time when common sense was missing, led to a tragic ending. My prayers are with Nick's family, the family of his friend, his classmates at GP9C, his current and former teachers and the family of the driver. Nick has now seen the face of God and that is one face I too am looking forward to seeing. We'll all miss you, Nick.

 

Posted by gpraider88

 

This boy wasn't your ordinary kid. He was smart, funny, and most of all, a good friend. I had him in 2 of my classes at GPHS and sat by him in both. He made everyone's day brighter that he came into contact with. We will never forget him.

 

Posted by SM2008

 

Hopefully others will learn not to do this. Don't let this death be for naught.

 

Posted by speakinwhatifeel

 

We have all done stupid stuff and I am sure most question "how in the world did I survive what I just did"...I wish for peace and comfort for the family...realizing that this sounds incredibly generic but I cannot even imagine what they are going through

 

Posted by Pooua

 

I arrived at the accident scene moments after it happened. I did not witness the accident, but I was only a few seconds behind those who did. I am so sorry this happened. I wish we could have done something for him. May the families involved be comforted. Thanks to the newspaper for carrying the story. I've been looking for it.

 

Posted by freebyrd

 

you know this is sad because a person died but not unusual given the circumstances of a freeway crossing. the kid probably wasn't aware of just how many people die under similar circumstances.

Dallas Morning News - QuickDFW.com coverage

14-year-old boy fatally struck by SUV while trying to cross Interstate 30 in Grand Prairie

 

06:42 PM CST on Thursday, December 11, 2008

 

By DAN X. McGRAW / The Dallas Morning News

dmcgraw@dallasnews.com

 

A 14-year-old boy was struck and killed while trying to cross Interstate 30 in Grand Prairie this afternoon, authorities said.

Nicholas Scroggs of Grand Prairie had left school early with a classmate at the Grand Prairie High School Ninth Grade Center when Nicholas decided to take a shortcut across the freeway about 2:30 p.m., said Sgt. Eric Hansen, a Grand Prairie police spokesman. A Chevy Suburban struck him near the Belt Line Road exit.

His friend, who was not identified, crossed at an underpass and was not injured, Sgt. Hansen said. Both teens were members of the Grand Prairie High swim team.

The SUV driver said he did not see the boy in time to stop, Sgt. Hansen said. He was not issued a citation.

Eastbound lanes of I-30 were shut down for two hours as police investigated the crash.

 

http://www.quickdfw.com/sharedcontent/dws/news/localnews/stories/121208dnmetgphit.532d0f8e.html#

Reader comments to ABC's news coverage


1370Albert

 

Thursday 11-11-2008 The Day Your Life Change For Ever Nicholas a Young Man That Live a Young Life will allways will be in are hearts
for his family & freinds now he can be with his family in heaven looking down and keeping his mom & dad & family safe my God Bless.

 

otisrdog1

 

this is so sad to hear, but what is it about people that can't take the extra time to walk to an intersection where there is a better and somewhat safer place to cross. saw a man this morning trying to do the same thing and the intersection was only a few feet down.

 

blessed b

 

I can't imagine what the minister's family is going through. How many times have we heard of grown people crossing the highway and getting killed? We should have more commercials about crossing highways.....put it on all times of day...like the ones they used to have about littering and crossing railroads wit the lights on...I knew it was stupid to cross the highway, but I had no idea it was against the law. Somewhere we are not getting the message. As for the schoolmates, you guys will never forget this lil guy, just as I have never forgotten the classmate I lost to her drunken driving boyfriend on prom night over 22 years ago.....Blessings on the families.....

 

tsmshane

 

Words cant express how sad this is. Sorry for your loss Mr Scruggs and may God bless you and your family.

 

cchipmom

 

Mr. Scruggs, I am so very sorry for your loss. We work with the teens at our church and camps and love them all dearly. I pray that God will wrap His loving arms around you all.

 

lizeth

 

IN LOVIN MEMORY OF NICHOLAS SCROGGS THIS IS FROM THE STUDENTS AT GPHS 9TH GRADE CENTER WERE GOING TO MISS HIM SO MUCH!!
NICHOLAS SCROGGS--GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN ='(
--GPHS 9TH GRADE CENTER

 

marlascm86

 

Mr Scroggs, please know how terribly sorry I
am for your loss, I can only imagine the pain
you are feeling. As I said, teens have that
zeal for life and don't always think, so your
son was no different - he didn't do anything
wrong as a crime, he was the result of an
unintentional accident. We feel your pain with
you and thank you for sharing his story with
us. He looks like he really loves life and I
am sure brought lots of happiness to those
around him often. Cherish his memories always
and know that he did bring joy and his other
gifts to everyone he came into contact with.
God bless you and your family - may He grant
you comfort and strength. You never know who
you may have touched by sharing his story and
how it may comfort others along the way. God
has Nicholas now - and rest assured he is safe
and he is happy !

I pray too, for the one who hit Nicholas. He
will have this to haunt him the rest of his
life. 

A very horrible tragedy.

 

ny_blnc

 

I'm so sorry for the loss. May God keep him safe and my prayers are with his family and friends as well as the driver of the vehicle.

 

sonny

 

Very tragic and you also have to feel for the person that hit him.

lluviazprincess

 

My prayers for his family and friends!!

 

GMEGOD

 

Mr. Scroggs,
My prayers are with you and your family for this tragic loss. May God give you peace and strength.

 

arandall

 

So sad, hope others realize how unsafe it is to cross highways...just don't do it. God bless his family and the minister and his family too.

 

reaggie

 

Poor baby. Sounds like he was just being a kid and trying something that seemed exciting without realizing the serious consequences possible. May God comfort his grieving family and the poor minister who hit him. I can't imagine having to be either side.

 

Robert Scroggs

 

Nicholas was my son. He has led a charmed life. No broken bones or other injuries. He was a daredevil and a risk taker. He was smart, and full of life. He never met a person that he did not wish to befriend. He brought joy and happiness to everyone's life. Crossing the highway isn't even a short-cut. My guess is that he just thought it would be exciting. One terrible decision has cost him his life. Nicholas has always been the world to me. I love him, and I miss him.

 

marlascm86

 

Hey, it's fine with me - I knew you didn't 
mean it like that. But, I was just giving
you a "red flag" in case. Yep, I just imagine
most all of our teen yrs we were perfect lil'
angels, but thankfully, some of my mischief
kept me alive as well as you. Too bad for
this kid. Hey, sorry about your day. I
know too well about those kinds. Let that
whiskey put you sound asleep tonight. And
maybe tomorrow will look brighter !

 

DILLIGAFF

 

marla, it really is they whiskey talkin, ive had a rough day, im sorry. may his family get the love and help they need. this is sad. i eas a teen once and luckily i didnt make a accidental eternal mistake

 

marlascm86

 

DILLIGAFF: Are you sure you mean this? It
does not sound like you at all. Maybe you
mean it shouldn't have happened, but just
as I said, kids this age are very daring
and naive. I don't wish them to die b/c
of that. That's a bit harsh there ! What
if the family is reading? How hurtful your
remark would be !

 

DILLIGAFF

 

its the whiskey talking , but im the kid tried to save a few minutes, but it ended up taking an eternity to do it.

 

personingp

 

Oh my god! I know him. Its gonna be a sad day at school tomorrow. 

My god bless Nick's family!

 

marlascm86

 

Oh gosh, this is TOO sad ! I pray God be
with his family and friends, especially the
one who was with him. 

Unfortunately, teens this age don't always 
think of potential consequences to their
actions - they are so naive. 

I am so sorry for the whole family !

ABC News Coverage

Boy fatally struck while crossing I-30 in Grand Prairie

 

08:36 AM CST on Friday, December 12, 2008

By WFAA-TV and The Dallas Morning News Reports

 

Steve Stoler reports

 

GRAND PRAIRIE - A 14-year-old boy was struck and killed Thursday afternoon while trying to cross Interstate 30 in Grand Prairie, authorities said.

Nicholas Scroggs had left school early with a classmate at the Grand Prairie High School Ninth Grade Center when he decided to cut across the freeway at about 2:30 p.m., said Sgt. Eric Hansen, a Grand Prairie police spokesman.

A Chevy Suburban, driven by a Farmersville minister who was with his wife and two young children, struck him near the Belt Line Road exit. The driver said he did not see the boy in time to stop, Sgt. Hansen said. He was not issued a citation.

"His friend went the way this student should have gone, and that was to take the 7th Street underpass to get to his house," said Sgt. Eric Hansen, Grand Prairie Department. "So, it makes no sense really for him to have crossed over the freeway. It's not even a shortcut, really, in my opinion. So, it remains a mystery right now as to why he would even attempt to do such a thing."

Nicholas Scroggs' father, Robert, wrote a statement about the fatal incident.

"Those cars are just moving so much faster than they look," he wrote. "One spur of the moment choice led to the death of a very happy, friendly and wonderful young man."

His 14-year-old friend, who was not identified, crossed at an underpass and was not injured, Sgt. Hansen said. Both teens were members of the Grand Prairie High swim team.

Sgt. Hansen said it's unlawful for pedestrians to be on the highway.

"They should never be up there," he said. "They should never try [to cross] under any circumstances."

Scroggs was a freshman at the Grand Prairie high school and was enrolled in gifted and talent classes.

 

WFAA-TV's Steve Stoler and The Dallas Morning News' Dan X. McGraw contributed to this report

http://www.wfaa.com/sharedcontent/dws/wfaa/latestnews/stories/wfaa081211_mo_boykilled.53d53553.html

Fox news coverage

Boy Hit and Killed on I-30
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A Grand Prairie boy was hit and killed by a vehicle on Interstate 30 on Thursday afternoon.

Nicholas Scroggs, 14, was struck by an SUV in the the far left eastbound lane near Beltline Road as he was trying to cross the freeway, police said.

The GPHS Ninth Grade Center student was walking home with a friend who refused to cross I-30. The other student decided to use the underpass at nearby 7th Street instead.

The driver of the Chevy Suburban, 39-year-old Christopher Barber of Farmersville, was not hurt, nor were his wife and two young children who were in the vehicle with him. No charges will be filed against Barber.

Scroggs was on the swim team and left school early to be at a swim meet Thursday evening.

http://www.myfoxdfw.com/myfox/pages/Home/Detail?contentId=8053888&version=4&locale=EN-US&layoutCode=TSTY&pageId=1.1.1

CBS News Coverage

Dec 11, 2008 10:11 pm US/Central

High School Freshman Killed Running Across I-30

 

GRAND PRAIRIE (CBS 11 News) ―

KTVT / KTXA

 

A 14-year-old boy was killed as he tried to run across Interstate 30 in Grand Prairie.

 

The Dallas County Medical Examiner's office has identified the boy as Nicholas Scroggs of Grand Prairie.

 

Sgt. Eric Hansen of the Grand Prairie Police Department tells CBS 11 News the boy was a freshman at Grand Prairie High School. Sam Buchmeyer, a spokesman for the Grand Prairie ISD, says he was a member of the school's swim team.

 

The Grand Prairie School Board took time out to remember Nicholas Thursday night. "He was a good student. Good athlete. Well liked on campus," said Buchmeyer.

 

Investigators say Nicholas left school early Thursday afternoon to get ready for a swim meet later that day. Hansen says he was trying to take a shortcut home. Hanson says Nicholas' house is about one mile from the school. I-30 is halfway in between, Hanson said.

 

"In my opinion, he wasn't saving himself any time because he didn't live directly north of the freeway," said Hansen. "He still had to cross the same street that goes underneath the freeway that would have been the safe route home."

 

The boy was with a friend from the swim team when he ran onto I-30 near Northwest Seventh Street, according to Hansen.

 

"He made it across two of the three lanes and then got struck by a Chevrolet Suburban," said Hansen.

 

The other teenager, who chose not to run onto the highway, saw the Suburban strike Nicholas. He then watched in horror as the driver of the Suburban and several other witnesses tried to help Nicholas.

 

But there wasn't much they could do. He didn't make it.

 

Nicholas' parents did not want to go on camera, but they say their son was a good kid. He was an honor student who loved swimming and art. They say he wanted to go to college to possibly study architecture.

 

Robert Scroggs says he hopes the accident serves as a warning to other kids. "Don't cross the freeway," he said. "Cars move faster than you."

 

Nicholas' teammates did not take part in their scheduled swim meet at Duncanville High School.

 

The driver who hit Nicholas will not be charged with any crime.

 

Counselors will be available Friday to help students and staff members deal with the tragedy.

(© MMVIII, CBS Broadcasting Inc. All Rights Reserved.)

http://cbs11tv.com/local/teen.killed.i.2.885441.html

Comments to NBC news story

These are the comments posted online in response to the NBC news story.

 

PLH

Robert

 

 


            • Angel  - Thursday, Dec 18 at 9:02 AM
My heart goes out to his family and the family that was in the car. What a terrible tragedy. No one should ever have to bury their child.


            • megg  - Tuesday, Dec 16 at 4:04 PM
poor nickolos i loved u and u never got to see it i miss u big hunk now i lay down thinking i shouldve went up to u and ask u out now i cant do that i lov u rip


            • Elizabeth K  - Monday, Dec 15 at 10:25 PM
You were a great edition to the tnt team! We will miss you so much! xoxo Elizabeth


            • orlandos baby  - Monday, Dec 15 at 12:51 PM
rest in peace nicholas scroggs


            • orlandos baby  - Monday, Dec 15 at 12:50 PM
rest in peace nick scroggs


            • jana  - Monday, Dec 15 at 12:49 PM
poor kid and if you have somethin to say thats negative just dont say at all. rest in peace


            • Sharon  - Monday, Dec 15 at 11:37 AM
Anonymous - if you don't have something supportive and compassionate to say, please keep your comments to yourself. This family is suffering and making comments like that are totally unnecessary and extremely hurtful.


            • Tim Gorski  - Monday, Dec 15 at 10:02 AM
Despite his tragic end, may Nicholas' life be an enduring source of blessings to all who knew him, now and in the future.


            • Rebecca Lozano  - Monday, Dec 15 at 9:27 AM
Although I only met Nick once, I knew him to be a very cool kid. I remember thinking that Katherine and Robert were so lucky to have 2 great kiddos. Katherine always kept me informed of how well her boys were doing on our lunch getaways. I am so sorry that you guys are going thru this and will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers! Rest in Peace, Nick.


            • Mark and Zeena Hooper  - Monday, Dec 15 at 7:51 AM
Our heart-felt condolences go out to Robert, Catherine and family in this most-difficult of times. We wish you peace and a hope that you find joy in remembering all the gifts that Nicolas left while he was with us.


            • MC  - Saturday, Dec 13 at 10:12 PM
I was Nick's PreAP Geography teacher...I am so sorry that Nick's family has to go through this. My heart goes out to them - especially Nick's brother, who is also one of my students. Yesterday was a really hard day, but it was touching to see just how many people had been affected by Nick's presence in their lives. He was his own person - true to his heart. Adventurous and impish, playful and sweet. We'll miss him terribly. We've saved your place at lunch, Nick. Forever and always.


            • Robert Scroggs  - Saturday, Dec 13 at 9:43 PM
Celebration Services for Nicholas Alexander Scroggs (14) of Grand Prairie, TX, will be 2:00p.m. Tuesday, December 16, 2008 at the Ruthe Jackson Center in Grand Praire. Nicholas died December 11, 2008 in Grand Prairie. He was born to Robert and Barbara Dent Scroggs August 18, 1994 in Denton and was attending Grand Prairie High School. Nick was taking a full slate of Gifted & Talented classes at Grand Prairie High School where he was also a member of the swim team and a friend to everyone. He had a passion for reading, drawing, and playing all types of musical instruments, especially the drums. He was always gung- ho about trying new experiences and his smile and energy were contagious to everyone. Left behind to cherish his memory are parents Robert Scroggs and his wife Katherine of Grand Prairie, Barbara Brumbaugh and her husband Don of NRH, brother Houston Chapman, sister Madalyn Brumbaugh, grandparents Jack and Charlotte Scroggs of Denton and Charles and Lee Dent of Poncha Springs, CO, great grandmothers Genevieve Scroggs of Denton and Ethel Dill of Fort Collins, CO, and many aunts, uncles, and cousins who also loved him dearly. Memorial contributions are suggested to the Nicholas Scroggs Memorial Fund. www.homesteadfuneralhomes.com


            • mark  - Saturday, Dec 13 at 8:54 PM
I had him for 2 periods and he was a great guy to talk to and get along with will miss you dearly rest in peace.


            • davericka  - Saturday, Dec 13 at 6:34 PM
i dont know nick my condolinces goes to the scroggs family.because loosing somebody could seriously hurt.


            • Shelley Smith  - Saturday, Dec 13 at 4:54 PM
I was one of Nick's friends as well, and I can say honestly that school on Friday without Nick was terrible. Every single person who knew Nick, whether they were one of his best friends, friends, classmates, or minor acquaintances, were crying. The staff was crying. You never really know how much you care about someone until they're gone. We all miss Nick terribly, and we all wish we could see his wonderful smile just one more time. He always smiled, and it's heartbreaking to think that we'll never see him again because of this spur of the moment decision... Nick was a wonderful person, and it's so so so sad that he's not with us anymore. Eisenhower kids miss him. Adams kids miss him. GP kids miss him. I can barely imagine the pain that Houston and Mr. and Mrs. Scroggs are going through... best wishes to you all, stay strong. Nick's passing has been a horrible tragedy, and we'll all miss him at school very much.


            • Kinney  - Saturday, Dec 13 at 11:02 AM
Our hearts go out to you and your family for the loss of your son. Our thougts and prayers go out to your family. God bless you.


            • Trellis  - Saturday, Dec 13 at 10:34 AM
Our thought and prays are with you and yours. He was such a great child and his love and devotion to his adorable sister and family will always be remembered.


            • J.B.  - Saturday, Dec 13 at 1:32 AM
As a mother, I can only imagine your sorrow and my heart aches for you. My thoughts and deepest condolences are with everyone touched by this tragedy.


            • a friend  - Saturday, Dec 13 at 12:06 AM
i was one of Nicks friends and i still cant belive that happiend and that he was a really good friend and everyone at gp9th will miss u and that u wont be 4gotten.


            • only the good die young  - Friday, Dec 12 at 11:58 PM
To Mr. Robert Scroggs. I pray for the heartless people. Who made comments posted on this website. Obviously the people posting these comments didn't know Nicholas and have never experienced a loss like this. I don't understand how some people can be so righteous to judge a young life being lost. And I sorry that there a lot of people out there that are uncompassionate to other. Those people also made heartless comment s on the young man that was also kill 2 week ago Cameron Paul Jeansonne. Cameron like your son made a poor decision that ends his life too. Therefore, the heartless people don’t care if the parents of the child that they just lost read the negative comments. To say the least Cameron father feels the same way as you Mr. Scroggs. Because he also sees the negative and the hated comment made about his son too. They do not care about anyone else but themselves. For those who know and loved them both will miss them the most. My thoughts and prayers are with both the family.


            • chelsey  - Friday, Dec 12 at 11:57 PM
yep, that smile. i cried all day, but now i realize that it's better to mimic your smile than to just remember it. you are soo missed!


            • Anonymous  - Friday, Dec 12 at 9:08 PM
Rick, may God be of comfort to you, your wife, and your family. Nick sounds like my own teenage Son and my heart breaks for your family. May this loss not be remembered as a tragedy, but a continued celebration of Nick's life. God bless you all!


            • Nikki White  - Friday, Dec 12 at 7:10 PM
I was Nick's Big Sister fr the swim team, and his death has hit me hard. It's feels like I've lost a family member, and it has been hard to cope with his death. The one thing I will always remember about Nick washis smile. Everytime I saw it, it brought so much joy to my life. I send my deepest regaurds to Nick's family. This was a Terrible loss for them, and as well for his friend Nathan. It was a sad day indeed.... I also feel for the family in the car that hit him. Nikki White


            • Shannon Meister  - Friday, Dec 12 at 5:32 PM
I was Nick's Band Director in Middle School and he was definitely one of the "good kids." He gave me a hug every day before leaving school to go home. I will always remember all of the books he loved to read (especially during class ) and how hard of a worker in band he was. Scroggs family - I loved your son very much and my deepest prayers are with you now. It is hard to understand God's path sometimes, but I rejoice in His ways. Thank you for allowing me to be a part of Nick's life - because, by knowing him, I am forever a better person.


            • Bryan Brooks  - Friday, Dec 12 at 5:29 PM
Sad day this is his friend that was his band mate and i hope you rest in peace and houston (nicks brother) Mark is trying to contact us. look up my name on myspace and we can hook up. Rest in peace nick


            • unknow  - Friday, Dec 12 at 5:15 PM
nick ... i will always remember you. you were a great friend and i miss you dearly always remember i love you! may you rest in peace.


            • Anonymous  - Friday, Dec 12 at 2:19 PM
my thoughts and prayers go out to this young mans family and also to the family of the person who hit him, im sure they just feel more horrible than anyone can ever imagine. its so horrible when tragedy strikes like this, especially around the holidays.


            • happy medium  - Friday, Dec 12 at 2:13 PM
Oh no that's so sad. I heard this on traffic reports about a pedestrian struck on I30 and remember thinking 'pedestrian on I30? Why would someone walk across a busy interstate? Now I know who they were talking about, so sad. Poor kiddo.


            • T  - Friday, Dec 12 at 1:46 PM
This is so tragic. I can't even imagine what you must be going throgh. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.


            • Linda  - Friday, Dec 12 at 1:19 PM
My prayers are with all these families that have been affected by this tragedy. Maybe the city of Grand Prairie should consider building a crossbridge.


            • Gloria Gamez  - Friday, Dec 12 at 1:19 PM
As a grieving aunt who lost her nephew to a tragic accident also back in 2006, I can feel your pain and will pray that God helps you get over your terrible loss. Nick seemed to be a super kid, God must have needed him more....May God Bless you.


            • ANGIE LEAL  - Friday, Dec 12 at 12:32 PM
AS A PARENT I COULD NOT IMAGINE WHAT YOU ARE GOING THRU, BUT I AM DEEPLY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.I WILL PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. MAY GOD BLESS YOU.


            • Linda  - Friday, Dec 12 at 12:14 PM
I am praying for Nicholas' family and also the family that was in the suburban. He was a preacher they said and I'm sure he is devastated as well. He also had his children in the van with him and I'm sure they are all in shock as is the Scrogg's family. I'm so very sorry for your loss. May God Bless


            • SanAntonio  - Friday, Dec 12 at 12:09 PM
As a father, i cannot imagine the hurt and pain you are feeling Mr. Scroggs. I am praying for you and your family. Lesson or not- your son is a special part of you and his mom. I just moved to here to Dallas and I left my son with his mom in SA. I worry, but pray, for his safety. He too is a daredevil. I just wish there was a way to bring your son back. Again, I'm for your loss. May the Lord keep you and hold you closely.


            • Patty  - Friday, Dec 12 at 10:25 AM
We have prayer group @ our place of employment every morning & this morning I prayed for each and everyone ivolved in this tragic accident!! I am so sorry to each of you this effected!!!


            • Sandra  - Friday, Dec 12 at 10:23 AM
I am sorry for your lose after losing my brothers, sister and dad all in one year, I know the feeling my mom said that losing a child is worse of all. My prayers are with you.


            • e gallegos  - Friday, Dec 12 at 9:43 AM
im sorry for what happened to nick im also a freshmen at gphs an i nkew him since 7th grade becasu we whent to adams togheder


            • May  - Friday, Dec 12 at 9:21 AM
Please do not acknowlege the comments of the sick individual causing more grief in this terrible situation. That is what he is after and he is not worth it. Every time he gets a return comment he gets a sick thrill. please ignore him. To Nick's family, my prayers and heart are with you at this time. For those of us who had the priviledge to have seen Nick's smile here in the halls of our school, we are grieving with you.


            • f williams  - Friday, Dec 12 at 9:15 AM
My son is on the swim team at another high school, and it breaks my heart to even think of losing him or any of the other boys on the team. I can only imagine what Nicholas' family must be going through right now. My thoughts and prayers are with this family.


            • Elizabeth  - Friday, Dec 12 at 8:48 AM
May God be with you and your family in this truly difficult time.


            • Sara G.  - Friday, Dec 12 at 8:43 AM
Our Prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this time. You're family is such a jewel, and it was a true pleasure to get to know you. I know how much those boys mean to you,and I can recall all of the wonderful stories you shared with us. From ventures to make money, to taking them to concerts, hearing you talk about your son always brought a smile to my face. I'm truly so sorry for your loss.


            • JJ  - Friday, Dec 12 at 8:34 AM
Wild Bill, you are nothing but trash, anytime you want to learn a real life lesson why don't you let me teach it to you, believe me you'll never forget it. Mr. Scroggs, I'm deeply saddened by your loss. I didn't know your son, but know what it is to have to deal with loss. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and all the lives that this young man touched.


            • Laura  - Friday, Dec 12 at 8:16 AM
My heart goes out to you, Mr. Scroggs, and to your family. This has got to be a very, very tough time for you. My heart also goes out to the family in the Suburban. I would hate to be in their shoes. That scene will probably play out in their memories for a long time. I have not read what "wild bill" wrote, nor do I care to do so. It is really sad that you came here and read words from a bitter person during your time of great sorrow and loss. Your words, Mr. Scroggs, seem to be that of a strong man. Make sure you allow yourself to grieve fully.


            • K. Mullikin  - Friday, Dec 12 at 8:14 AM
My Heart goes out to the Scroggs family. My daughter Hailey has gone to school with Nick since Elementary and that tight knit group of kids from Eisenhower are all taking this very hard. They loved Nick, as he was a great kid. It is a very sad day at Grand Prairie High today. Anyone who is there today will see many kids Honoring Nick by wearing black today. He will be greatly missed by his friends, fellow classmates and any that knew him. As for those who are insensative like (Wild BIll) all I can say is that maybe you should take a long look in the mirror as you appear to be the one who needs to do some self reflecting. It is sad to see there are people like you in the world. How dare you make such a comment, however what goes around comes around. For those who are missing and morning Nick GOD BLESS you all and Please keep Nicks family and friends in your prayers.


            • Ivy  - Friday, Dec 12 at 8:13 AM
I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful son. Such a young like cut short. He made a very tragic mistake that cost him his life. I'm sure others will learn from this terrible mistake & hopefully not do it. My prayers with you Mr. Scroggs & your entire family. Nicholas is up in heaven smiling down on all of us.


            • Amy  - Friday, Dec 12 at 8:11 AM
Mr. Scroggs, I'm terribly sorry for you loss. My son was Nick's friend & he has been traumitized by this. I hope that my son can learn from this & try to not be such a daredevil himself. Life is fragile. I'm sorry that Nick's ended so suddenly. I will keep your family and the family in the vehicle in my prayers.


            • Peggy  - Friday, Dec 12 at 8:08 AM
We are all so sorry to hear of this tragic mistake. We will forever remember this sweet sweet boy and his devotion to his adorable sister and family.


            • Robert Scroggs  - Friday, Dec 12 at 7:43 AM
Nicholas was my son. He was a smart kid, but he was a daredevil. There was no reason for him to be on the highway yesterday afternoon. He made a very poor decision, and it proved to be catastrophic. Anyone who can criticize him obviously did not know him, and obviously never did anything stupid at the risk-taking age of 14. I'm sorry that "Wild Bill" finds joy in the suffering of others. I hope he can grow past this phase of his life.


            • Brian Burns  - Friday, Dec 12 at 1:37 AM
My thoughts and prayers go out to Jay's family and to all his friends at GPHS.


            • William Willie  - Thursday, Dec 11 at 11:01 PM
I was one of Nick's friends and as Giovanni "Jay" said, he really was a good kid, a good friend, was always smiling, and was a smart kid and i don't know why he would try to do something like that. He was a really good friend and a lot of his friends at GP will miss him.

NBC News Coverage

This is the article written by Susy Solis of KXAS, Channel 5 (NBC
affiliate in DFW area). The link to the original article is at the end
of this posting. I'm only copying it here to preserve it after NBC
decides the news is old enough to remove from their web site.

PLH
Robert


Teen Dies Trying To Cross I-3014-year-old boy struck, killed by sport
utility vehicle
By SUSY SOLIS

Updated 11:22 PM CST, Thu, Dec 11, 2008


KXAS
Nicholas Scroggs

Grand Prairie police said a 14-year-old boy trying to take a shortcut home was struck and killed on Interstate 30 on Thursday afternoon.

Teen Dies Trying To Cross I-30

A Chevy Suburban hit Nicholas Scroggs when he tried to cross I-30 near Beltline Road at about 2:30 p.m.

He was pronounced dead at the scene.

The driver of the Suburban was in the vehicle with his wife and three children when the crash occurred.

Police said no charges will be filed.

Nicholas, a freshman, was released from school early because he had a swim meet later Thursday night.

He was enrolled in the Gifted and Talented Program at Grand Prairie High School.

His father, Robert Scroggs, said he wants his son's death to serve as a lesson.

"Those cars are going much faster than they look," he said. "One spur-of-the-moment choice led to the death of a very happy, friendly, wonderful young man."

Classmates at Grand Prairie High School said Nicholas was known as a smart kid who always had a smile on his face.

"He was a really good kid," said Giovanni Simon, a friend. "He was fun to hang out with. He was a really smart."

The Grand Prairie Independent School District said counselors will be on hand to help students cope with the his death.

Find this article at:
http://www.nbcdfw.com/news/local/14-Year-Old-Dies-Trying-To-Cross-I-30.html?corder=&pg=1#comments

Newspaper obituary guestbook entries

I think the most important use for this blog is to make sure the
heartfelt messages that people have posted around the web are not lost
as the news sites refresh their content. So, this first blog is a
collection of the guestbook entries people have posted to the Dallas
and Fort Worth newspapers' obituary.

Thank you to all who have posted, as well as those who have simply
been keeping us in your thoughts.

PLH
Robert


December 19, 2008
Robert and family, our thoughts are with you. So many people have been
crushed by this needless loss. Nick was a wonderfull friend to my son.
He will never be the same and misses Nick so, so much. We are here for
you.
James and Susan Tipton (Grand Prairie, TX)



December 19, 2008
Our deepest sympathy for you and all the family in Denton.
Jeff & Maggie Scroggs (Raleigh, NC)



December 18, 2008
Our thoughts are with you.
The McCormicks
Ector Street-Denton, Texas
Missy McCormick (Denton, TX)



December 17, 2008
Dear Barbara, Don, Madelyn and Robert, I signed the blog site of
Pastor Bart before I saw this guest book. I am so sorry that Nicholas
is no longer with us. I am very glad that I had the time to know such
a beautiful, bright kind boy. I am sorry that the ice kept me away
from the Celebration of his life. I remember when he would eagerly
participate in all the goofy themes and activities at the gym. Our
thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Many of the kids that knew
Nicholas at the gym have sent their loving concern for all of you and
especially Nicholas' mother Barbara, their Coach BB. Love and sweet
memories, Mary, John and your North Star family
Mary Unertl (McKinney, TX)

December 16, 2008
Please know that you and your family will continue to be in our prayers.
Pauline Meuer (Farmersville, TX)



December 15, 2008
Coach Barbara, our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family
during this time of great loss. Nick's love and devotion to his family
and little sister will always be remembered. He was such an good boy.
I count it a privilege to have known him. You are loved and remembered.
Trellis (TX)



December 15, 2008
My heart goes out to you and your family during your time of sadness,
and I want you to know that even though I only met Nicholas for one
year at Adams, he was a kind and happy boy who inspired me to become a
better teacher for my students.
Cherie Rewis Adams Ms. (Grand Prairie, TX)



December 15, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this
difficult time. God bless.
Marshall Trotter and family



December 15, 2008
My heart goes out to your family at this time. My pastor at Abundant
Life Assembly of God (G.P.) wanted you, the family, to know that we as
a church prayed for you yesterday (12/14/08) during service. May our
Lord and Savior comfort you during this time.
Denise Bowers (Adams M.S.) (Grand Prairie, TX)



December 15, 2008
To Nicholas's family,
We are so shocked and saddened to hear the news, and we are so sorry
for your loss. We only knew Nicholas when he was a baby, but we see
from the Internet that he touched many lives in his short years. He
made the world a better place.
Sheri and Tim Meyers (Fort Worth, TX)



December 15, 2008
Robert, we are thinking of you,and want you to know that if you need
anything,we are here for you. Dan and Danielle
Dan Scroggs (Denton, TX)



December 15, 2008
It was an honor to to know and to teach Nick Scroggs. My heart goes
out to his family and friends at this difficult time. You are all in
my thoughts and prayers.
Twila Read (Adams Middle School)



December 15, 2008
My thoughts are with you. I know you will miss him dearly and cherish
the memories. I lost a son at age 13 a few years ago and I know that
this is a very hard time for you. God bless.
Rhonda (AR)



December 15, 2008
Our heartfelt sympathy to you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Shelley Elliott (Euless, TX)



December 14, 2008
So sorry to hear about your son. You are in my prayers, Robert.
Heather Hoskins Henry (Austin, TX)



December 14, 2008
Our Lord must have wanted you with him fast, Nick. I enjoyed teaching
you in my science class when you were in the 6th grade. I pray that
everyone left behind will celebrate Nick's life and know that he is
now making our Lord smile just as he made us smile. We will all be
together again one day. God bless Nick's family and friends.
Gina Gola (Grand Prairie, TX)



December 14, 2008
Robert, I am so sorry about the passing of your son.
You and your family will be in my prayers.
Laura Nixon Campise
Laura Nixon Campise (Lewisville, TX)

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